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Premature Reconciliation

Nugget: Premature Reconciliation. 

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What it means: When a guy or gal is trying to win back the affections of their ex…many times they start to make headway…but then go too far when the ex shows signs of reattachment.
 
For example…
 
Tom calls Sally and they set up a little coffee talk…and it goes well…BUT rather than leaving after 20 minutes or so…Tom continues and tries to move forward too fast.
 
And even if Sally brings up getting back together first…Tom’s response should NOT be YIPEE!
 
He’d be much better off staying calm and saying something like…
 
“Let’s take it slow and see how it goes.”
 
Women I email and talk with…often make the mistake of ’sleeping with their ex’ too soon. (classic Premature Reconciliation)
 
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Love Online: Emotions on the Internet

Love Online: Emotions on the Internet

5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful, April 20, 2009 by “Kimberly Max Brown” (Williamstown NJ)
I thought this book Love Online was very insightful. I wanted to learn more about how people express affection on the internet. “Love Online” explained in a scholarly fashion just how the internet may encourage the kind of conversational yet increasingly intimate chat and e-mail that often gets people into trouble with their relationships.

Ben Ze’ev is a philosopher, much more so than a psychoanalyst. He is keen to demonstrate how the philosophical mores of the internet (independence, lack of censorship, etc.) break down the usual barriers to intimacy (shyness, vulnerability, truth, attraction, availability, etc.). Thus, the power inherent in internet communication fosters immense changes in traditional social relationships.

Ben Ze’ev reinforces the old adage that the mind is most sexual organ, while highlighting the ways the internet is conditioned to sustain romantic and sexual cerebral play. Once the communicators begin their online exchange, qualities that are most keenly activated among offline lovers emerge. However, the links between the two conversants remain tenuous and ephemeral. Out of this soup of verbal chat, IM, e-mail, web videos, and blogging, many of the real world circumstances that seem to contain offline relationship disappear. For instance, regarding marriage, the author describes in great detail how the internet may undermine a commitment by flooding it with illicit sexual and romantic communication without the knowledge or consent of both partners. Though emotional and sexual infidelity of this sort may be obvious to some, what is not so apparent are the mechanisms in the human psyche that make this so attractive and powerful in the first place. Further, the author also details how such verbal intimacy is introducing new norms in marriage, such as sexually open, internet-based relationships.

In the end, Ben Ze’ev is making a strong case for the transformation of modern marriage into a relationship that accommodates internet influenced intimacies. For those who have fallen prey to internet romantic and sexual love, and the unfulfilled hopes and expectations that usually arise, this book will help to understand what happened. Anyone who thinks that legislating marriage between one man and one woman is useful hasn’t spent much time lately using the internet.

Love Online

Aaron Ben-Ze’ev

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Do You Love to be proud of Me

In the Name of Love – Darling, Are You Proud of Me?

Do you realize that you should be proud of me?

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A Philosopher Looks at Our Deepest Emotion

Aaron Ben-Zeév is President and Professor of Philosophy at the University of Haifa. His books include: 

by Aaron Ben-Zeév found at psychologytoday.com on January 29, 2010

http://ak.imgfarm.com/images/fwp/myfuncards/Holidays/lg/LoveAndPride.jpg“It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.” Unknown
“Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man.” C. S. Lewis
“When you’re as great as I am, it’s hard to be humble.” Muhammad Ali

What is the connection between romantic love and pride? It seems that although not all instances of pride involve love, basically all instances of romantic love involve pride. The nature and profoundness of love is expressed in the nature and profoundness of pride. Lovers are very proud of their beloved.

The relationship between love and jealousy is somewhat similar, but is manifested in a negative way. Jealousy does not necessarily involve love, but genuine romantic love may give rise to jealousy.

We can distinguish between pridefulness, which is the emotion resulting from the belief that one is a superior and better person, and pride, which is the emotion arising from the belief that one has done a good thing. Whereas pridefulness has a negative impact upon romantic relationship, pride is an important and often useful part of it.

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hbo big love Strange Bedfellows

HBO Big Love: Making contact.

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big love Big Love – The Complete First Season ~ Bill Paxton
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found at latimesblogs.latimes.com January 24, 2010 | 10:00 pm .

Bill Paxton little connection to get things moving. Characters came together throughout this episode, titled “Strange Bedfellows” — some for the better, and some for the worse, but all of which set forward a nice, exciting momentum for the rest of the season

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How Do I save My Relationship With My Girlfriend

How Do I save My Relationship With My Girlfriend

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If you’ve asked the question: “how do I save my relationship with my girlfriend” than you know how challenging it can be sometimes to make a relationship work.

The good news is that even though it is sometimes difficult, it’s not impossible and having a great relationship really is one of the best things in life and well worth the effort.

The first thing you have to honestly evaluate is whether or not the relationship is really something that should be saved.

This is so hard to do because no one wants to admit that maybe the person they love isn’t the right person for them. It happens all the time that people stay in a relationship with someone who just isn’t a good fit, and they are miserable.

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Coping With A Break Up 4 Steps For Getting Back On Your Feet

Coping With A Break Up 4 Steps For Getting Back On Your Feet

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It can be hard to deal with a break up. Many tend to dwell on their ended relationship. They waste time and emotion on something that they simply cannot change. These people need to learn how to deal with a break up. If you are coping with a break up, there are a few things that you can do to make the process as painless as possible. These 4 steps will help you to deal with the end of your relationship.

Let it All Out

The first thing that you need to do is to get all of your emotions out. You need to every single emotion out, whether it be angry, sad, frustrated, or mad. Talk to friends about how you feel. Write down your thoughts in a journal or through an online blog. If you want to get back on your feet, you need to deal with these emotions.

Hit the Town

If you want to get back on your feet, you need to get out. Go out with friends and enjoy doing activities without your ex. Ask friends to go to the movies or to go to the mall. If you feel up to it, go out to bars and clubs with your friends. You need to get out of your house. Hitting the town with close friends is the best way to do so.

Meet New People

It is important for you to meet new people when you are dealing with a breakup. This is not to say that you should be scoping out someone new to date. You should simply talk to new people and go on a few dates. These pressure-free situations will help you to get a feel for what is out there. Seeing what else is out there is an easy way to get back on your feet after a break up.

Give Yourself Time

The most important step to follow is the last. You need to give yourself time to deal with your breakup. Everyone would love to be able to get over a breakup in a matter of days. This type of turnaround time is simply impossible. Give yourself time to get over the emotions that you feel. The more time you give yourself, the more likely you are to get over your relationship.

Some people try to bottle up their emotions when dealing with a break up. They think that this will help them to cope with the end of that relationship. In reality, bottling these emotions makes the entire situation worse. You need to go out on the town with your friends and meet new people. You need to leave yourself some time to grieve, and some time to be single. If you are coping with a break up, you need to follow these steps.

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AMOUR BRISE – BROKEN HEART – SENDING AN ANGEL

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Can Positive Thinking Get My Boyfriend Back

Can Positive Thinking Get My Boyfriend Back

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There are a lot of people who believe in the power of positive thinking. They work hard to ensure that they remove as many negative thoughts as possible. Some people believe that positive thinking can get my boyfriend back. There are a lot of things to consider when thinking about positive thinking. While it may be able to help you to get your boyfriend back, it may not be the only thing that you need to do.

Benefits of Positive Thinking

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Positive thinking can be a big help when you are trying to get someone back. If you want to know if positive thinking get my boyfriend back, think about the good that it can do.

Positive thinking can completely change your outlook on your old relationship. It will help you to remove the negative thoughts that you may have. You may not think about the negatives of that past relationship. You will also stop thinking negatively in terms of your chances of getting back together. Positive thinking can help you to look at the situation in a new light.

Positive thinking may also give you a new perspective on your life. You may realize that you do not want to get back together with your old boyfriend when you think positively. You may realize that you do not need them after all, and that you are fine on your own. This may not be the case, but it is a possibility to consider. While this is slightly different, it is still a benefit of positive thinking.

Issues With Positive Thinking

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Relying completely on positive thinking may not be good for your overall issue. While it is important to think positively, you still need to take action. You still need to asses the situation. You need to understand the steps that you need to take to get your boyfriend back.

If you only try positive thinking, your chances of getting your boyfriend back are slim to none. They will not know that you are thinking of them. They will not know that you are thinking about getting back together with them. Without action, positive thinking is not going to get you back together with your old boyfriend.

Positive thinking is all about you. It helps you to get over your issues, and helps you to think positively. Positive thinking does not do anything to the person that you want to get back together with.

Positive thinking is an important part of this overall process. If you want to make sure that you get our old boyfriend back, however, you must take action. Talk to them. Listen to what they have to say. Buy them small gifts, and try to spend time with them. These are the only ways to actually get your boyfriend back. 

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my boyfriend is cheating on me

Beating The Break-Up Blues when my boyfriend is cheating on me

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fight ex back fastYou feel all out of sorts because life as you’ve known it prior to the break-up gets turned all upside down, and chances are you’re not quite sure which way is up right now.

While I do understand how painful breaking up can be, there are a few things you can do to help transition back into at least a semblance of “normal” life.

The key is to put your focus on something else.

It may take a little time, but doing this will take some of the edge off the pain you’re feeling and let you move on through life without having to deal with a lot of the blocks and re-starts some folks can’t seem to get past.

Instead, they get stuck in “life without him/her mode” and have a hard time moving forward.

Don’t let this happen to you.

Break-up’s are painful, yes. But the truth is, the world hasn’t ended, even if it does tend to feel like yours is falling apart at the moment. Life will and does go on – with or without you.

You, however, are a survivor. You won’t stay trapped in the past, because you’ll be moving forward.

For the first few weeks, it may be best if you don’t go to the places you and s/he often frequented together, and don’t try to hang out with what should be mutual friends.

You can pick up these extended relationships later, but for now, concentrate on things you know make you feel good that do not have a connection to him/her.

If you have trouble coming up with something to focus on, take some time to think about the kinds of things you enjoyed before you began your relationship.

Did you have a hobby you’ve kind of let go?  Was there something you were passionate about before you and s/he met? Really give it some thought, and then start to do those things.

The more involved you become in doing things that make you feel good, the better you will feel. In time (faster than you think) you’ll be able to call on those friends you and s/he both enjoyed spending time with, and even face-to-face meetings with your ex will be easier to handle.

Just remember to put your focus on doing things that make you feel good, and you’ll beat those break-up blues in no time! Visit http://www.exgirlfriend.biz

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How To Make Him Or Her Fall In Love Again

How To Make Him Or Her Fall In Love Again

Things getting a little boring in your relationship? Feeling like every day is the same as the day before? How would you like to bring back the excitement and fun you felt when you first fell in love? Think it’s impossible? It’s not.

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Stopping a Divorce

Stopping a Divorce – It’s time to take control of your situation and get over the the trouble experienced in your marriage.

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How to Save a Relationship

 How to Save a Relationship

So how exactly can you win one over you ex? Don’t panic and think that it’s the end of the world.

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If you enjoyed this video you will also like the advice of  TW Jackson an advisor who saved hundred of relations like yours because he knows exactly what to do.

You can get your head on straight and finally have the secret recipe for love. Use the Fast Forward Technique written in his eBook and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression. You’ll feel better the moment you discover what he has to say about your possible love situation.

You need to stay calm and know that you can always do

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Keeping a Lover Happy

Keeping a Lover Happy

When you visit T Dub’s website www.makinguplove.com  and read on what people say about The Magic of Making Up, you’ll realize that his advice really works. In fact, you’ll be surprised at just how effective it is.

His eBook is not for those who want to hurt others. In fact, it really is just for the everyday man or woman. Read through the testimonials and see the many different situations that people have surpassed just because they listened to his expert advice.

You want the love of your life back in your arms?

Again, visit T Dub’s website and read what people have to say about The Magic of Making Up. You’ll soon realize that the advice he gives really works. You’ll be happy to discover that it has worked for many. This eBook was intended for those who have nothing but the purest of intentions. This is for the everyday man and woman who want love, nothing more, nothing less.

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Do I Want My Ex Back?

Do I Want My Ex Back?

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  • T Dub has gotten a ton of practice make relationships and last. He has seen the world and experienced a myriad of relationships, and not just of the romantic kind. The point is, it’s difficult to maintain connection if you’re in the army.

    That is why T Dub had to learn the hard way. If you want help before it’s too late, you need to listen to his advice. You can consider him somewhat of an expert even if he isn’t traditionally the person that people go to for advice. And like his career, the advice he gives and the methods he uses are very unconventional.

    Relationship counselors and charge $50 to $100 an hour for their expert advice. Sometimes, they even require months of work, and obviously, this does cost more.

    T Dub only asks for a one-time payment of $39, and that is a small amount compared to what you really pay when you go for therapy. You learn so much more through experience than just through books and school. He understands more than you think because he has gone through so much in life.

    The man who wrote the Magic of Making Up is just an everyday kind of guy. T Dub has experience, and that’s all he has. But if you read the testimonials on his website, you’ll see that he really is able to make relationships work. If you’re not as happy with your relationship the way you once were, you may really need his help. Listen to his advice because he really does know what he’s talking about. He is an expert because he has studied life. Though he may not have the education that the therapists have had, he is able to read people and understand their actions. And like his chosen career path, the advice he gives and the methods he uses are very unconventional.
     
    For that reason alone, you can believe that he really does know what he’s talking about. He can help you get your loved one back with instructions that are easy to follow. He has the perfect recipe right here in this amazing new eBook. His wisdom surpasses what is conventional. And you can be rest assured that you will maintain your dignity all throughout.

    He put together strategies applicable to people from all over the world. In fact, you may read about things you’ve never heard of. Nonetheless, his ideas give you a fresh take on love. His intention is to make people happy by being with someone they truly love. Experience is simply the better teacher. You may read about theories in books and journals, but putting it into practice may altogether be different. T Du has had life as his teacher. The new world requires new ideas. Conventionality no longer works and that is why you should consider looking into his wisdom.

    The methods presented are easy to follow because you’re not required to swallow your pride. His strategies are surprising but just as effective. Download it now and create your very own happy relationship that surpasses the test of time.

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    The Secret to Relationships

    TW Jackson, the genius behind the eBook The Magic of Making Up, gives you the secrets to winning the love of your life back.

    First of all, T Dub (what the author is most known for) isn’t a psychologist, an expert, or even a wizard. In fact, he’s just a regular guy who seems to be genuinely interested in making love work for everyone. He was a military brat who decided to enter the US Navy when he was 17 years old.

    His long military experience has given him a chance to see the world. Because change was a constant in his life, he had to learn how to adapt and live with it. He had to get along with people so that he can have some semblance of order. He dealt with people from all walks of life, and this is what made him good at reading others. He understood what made people tick. To influence the actions of your loved ones, you must realize what tickles their fancy.
     
    Because he wanted to share his acquired skill with the rest of the world, he came up with this eBook. Though he may be no self-professed relationship expert, his experience is credible enough to indicate that he really does know what he is talking about. After all, there is no better teacher but experience. He also had his fair share of relationships and has had practice in keeping it together. Because divorce rate is much higher for military couples, he had to work extra hard. His eBook aptly titled The Magic of Making Up is the best resource there is. All you need is $39. This is but a fraction of what your relationship is truly worth.

    Have dreams and never give up on them. When you are part of a once dynamic and loving duo, it helps to agree upon a common goal Learn how to encourage each even when things get bumpy. Your goal here is to share a goal so that you get a greater sense of greater purpose, partnership, and mutual respect. Figuring out how to get to this stage may sound extremely daunting, but it’s actually not something to dread. Stop reading those other guides that magazines offer. They give you pieces of advice that you already know. In fact, it’s something you’ve heard of before. The Magic of Making Up brings you two together to stay in unity come rain or shine.

    The cynics may have a hard time buying into all this, but the truth is, it has worked for so many. Try looking at the reviews and you will immediately see that majority, if not all, of those who used it have been more than happy with the results. It certainly is something to consider. So what if you purchase a guide? That’s nothing to be ashamed of. Couples go through therapy, and this is a lot like that.

    Others spend thousands of dollars just to stay together while you will be asked to shell out spare change. The best part is, it really does work.

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